How to know if a man needs you
Men are very reserved in expressing their feelings. But certain actions, words, and non-verbal gestures can give them away. And then you can no longer doubt, but live with complete confidence that a man needs you.
Follow your actions. A man in love will strive with all his might to be with his beloved woman as often as possible and enjoy communication with her. But if your relationship is not very close, and the man is shy, then at first he may be restrained in showing attention. Allegedly random meetings can also indicate that the guy is looking for a meeting with you. And if in communication he says “we" instead of “you” and “I”, then this means that mentally he represents you together. The readiness of a man to make adjustments to his plans just to adapt to you also “speaks” louder than words. The way his relationship with your friends develops is also a good indicator. If he shows genuine interest in them, respects their opinions and seeks to understand what they like, then this is most likely dictated by feelings for you.
Get into the words. Of course, hearing a frank confession of your feelings from a man is a special pleasure, but you should not count on him at the beginning of a relationship. Usually a man can be stingy with words, and to say that he loves you, he will not decide soon, because this means admitting his own addiction. But tender feelings are evidenced by the tone of the man’s voice, the way he pronounces your name and whether he uses diminutive nicknames when addressing you. Also a good sign is the guy’s openness and his willingness to tell everything about himself in detail, without hiding flaws and without exaggerating his merits.
Pay attention to body signals. Incredibly dilated pupils are the best indicator that no man can hide with all his will, and the gleam in his eyes will only prove an already obvious fact. In addition, you should pay attention to whether the man repeats your gestures and body movements. If yes, then he subconsciously copies you and thereby creates an atmosphere of trust and openness. Also, his gentle and unobtrusive touches will testify to his genuine interest in you.
If the above is characteristic of a man, then it makes no sense to doubt that he needs you.
What if the purpose of the relationship is something unconditional for which both the man and the woman could take responsibility? What if this is… the practice of love? Love is what is within us; something for which we are responsible in both good and bad times. Love allows us to focus on our own efforts and responsibilities, as well as to notice the advantages of our partner. Too many people focus on taking something from the relationship. But, for a harmonious relationship, you need to give, take responsibility for your happiness, and then “invest” it in others.