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SHOULD I COMMUNICATE WITH THE EX-HUSBAND FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILDREN?

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For many divorced couples, it was difficult to maintain a civilized dialogue when they lived together. Often the situation does not improve when they no longer live under the same roof. And many find themselves in a difficult situation when they have to share custody of children with a person whom they would not want to see at all if he were not their father. However, for the sake of the children, it is better to do everything possible so that the ex-husband and child still communicate.

Always keep in mind that you are no longer a couple.

It sounds simple, but it’s hard to accept for most people. Whenever you feel like you are starting to argue with your ex for any reason, remember that you are no longer together. Ask yourself if it’s worth wasting your time and energy on recriminations and arguments. It is best to leave all disagreements in the past. 

SHOULD I COMMUNICATE WITH THE EX-HUSBAND FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILDREN?

Respect the way of upbringing

Although it is very difficult to accept, especially if you resent your ex-husband, he has the right to raise his children according to his principles, just like you. You don’t always see things from the same point of view, which is why you got divorced. Try to make a significant effort to understand it. Think about how you would like him to treat you in a similar situation.

SHOULD I COMMUNICATE WITH THE EX-HUSBAND FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILDREN?

Put the welfare of your children before your ego

When you are asked permission to take your common children on vacation with their father, you should not think about yourself. Don’t think how much you will miss them, as this point of view is selfish. Think about the travel experience your little one will have and how great it will be with another family. Don’t turn your ex out of revenge, self-interest, or resentment.

Do not argue in front of your children

If children see how adults swear in some situation, then they feel very bad, often taking everything personally. So it is better to make an effort to maintain a calm mutually respectful relationship. Naturally, there are things that are annoying, or the way the ex-husband behaves with you, but you need to try not to show it. Neither he nor you will change, so there is no point in discussing. Not to mention cursing in front of the children who suffer more than you in this situation. 

SHOULD I COMMUNICATE WITH THE EX-HUSBAND FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILDREN?

Relationships for life

Fortunately or unfortunately, when you have children with your ex, you are connected for life. Both parents will be required to attend many social events such as birthdays, graduations, weddings and other significant dates. For the sake of everyone, it’s better to communicate in a friendly way. Ultimately, time heals all wounds, although at first glance it may seem impossible to maintain a friendly relationship with it. But, when both rebuild their lives separately, it will probably be easier, and years will smooth out grievances.

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