10 ways to make a man chase you
Perhaps every woman dreams of conquering a man, but not everyone knows how to do it. Brew a love potion? Get rid of all rivals? Do a hundred or two plastic surgeries? Who knows, love is a mysterious thing, and the strangest deeds sometimes help to win it. However, there are general recommendations that can be given to girls who want to win a man’s heart.
1 Be beautiful.
Say what you like, but the man pays attention first to the external data of the girl, and only then to her inner world. If you want to attract the attention of the stronger sex, watch yourself. Visit beauty salons, do styling in the morning, do not forget to apply makeup. You must forget the words “and so it will do": a woman must be impeccable, regardless of whether millions see her or just one person.
2 Be different.
Beauty is, of course, good, but do not forget that there are a lot of pretty women. In order for a man to choose you, you must be different from the rest. This does not mean that you need to immediately run to the hairdresser and dye your hair green: just come up with a couple of original gestures.
3 Watch your gait.
Perhaps you think that walking is a secondary matter: stunning high-heeled shoes will attract the attention of men on their own. This, of course, is true, but not entirely. The representatives of the stronger sex will notice your slender legs, your desire to please, but they will not see lightness in you. Remember, a woman who can walk beautifully in slippers looks better than a clumsy lady in shoes.
4 Smile.
Men love it when a girl has a smile on her face. This can be easily explained: it is pleasant to communicate with a friendly person. It is not for nothing that benevolent people are often compared to the sun: they give light and warmth, like the ancient luminary.
5 Be well-groomed.
Never allow yourself to appear in front of a man in a washed-out bathrobe and tangled hair. Whether you’re in the mood to dress up or not, don’t pull on a stretchy sweater and jeans. Respect others, understand that it is unpleasant for them to see an untidy person. The fact that you spend an extra thirty minutes getting ready will not worsen your bad mood, and maybe even get better.
6 Don’t be aggressive.
Men are afraid of women who are too active. They do not like to be prey, because they are accustomed to consider themselves hunters. Do not deprive yourself of the pleasure of watching how your chosen one is trying to win you over.
7 Don’t be smart.
A woman who knows about everything in the world and demonstrates it at every opportunity is not perceived by men as a potential companion. They may respect her, but they are unlikely to decide to start building a relationship with her. What for? She is independent, besides, she knows more than they do. Understand that it is hard for the representatives of the stronger sex to come to terms with the fact that they are worse than ladies in the affairs of "male" (the "female" matters include caring for a child and maintaining comfort in the house).
8 Don’t pretend you don’t need men.
Inaccessibility can be attractive, but not always. It is one thing when a woman shows a man that she is not easy to win, another thing is when she demonstrates her indifference to him. In the second case, the person is likely to stop the assault and prefer to retreat. Don’t let him go.
9 Know how to be affectionate.
Whatever your image, know how to throw off the mask, being alone with a man. He needs a soft woman who knows how to listen and understand, and not a cold, albeit beautiful Snow Queen. A vamp woman is rarely happy in her personal life: she attracts men, but their passion does not last long.
10 Appreciate yourself.
Never hang yourself on the neck of men, do not run to the first person you meet. No matter how much you love a person, let him know that you are not a dog, and if he does not pay due attention to you, just go to another. Believe me, a woman who values herself will always find someone to go to.
What if the purpose of the relationship is something unconditional for which both the man and the woman could take responsibility? What if this is… the practice of love? Love is what is within us; something for which we are responsible in both good and bad times. Love allows us to focus on our own efforts and responsibilities, as well as to notice the advantages of our partner. Too many people focus on taking something from the relationship. But, for a harmonious relationship, you need to give, take responsibility for your happiness, and then “invest” it in others.