5 STAGES OF RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN

Take the most comfortable position for you and feel as if you are at home. If you pick up your memory, student and carefree years are very well remembered. It was during that period of time that I fell head over heels in love with a guy who happened to meet on the way home. Our relationship developed like in a fairy tale …. no … even this could be called paradise. He did not stop calling me his angel, carried me in his arms and whispered in my ear all the time that my eyes were driving him crazy and at the same time blinding me with their beauty. There was no limit to my happiness, it cannot be expressed in words. I looked at my beloved all the time and could not believe for a second that such a treasure was given to me.

However, not everything went so well, and as they say, this happiness did not last long. At one point, the handset of his phone was out of range. And due to my upbringing and moral values, I did not become interested in the reasons for such an act.
Many years have passed, and I am no longer a student. My life has changed a lot, and I met a completely different person. And this was the last person with whom I wanted to connect for the rest of my life. However, there come such moments when from time to time I mentally return, then the past and somewhere in the depths of my soul I torment myself with doubts, but maybe all the same then, it was necessary to find out the reasons for such a sharp disappearance of a person.
That’s exactly why I want to tell you about the stages of the relationship between a woman and a man, in order to avoid and not repeat such mistakes as I did. After all, knowing all the intricacies of relationships and their psychological structure, you can easily isolate yourself from possible internal and spiritual disappointments …
 And so, conditionally, the development of relations between a woman and a man can be divided into five stages: slight attraction, doubt and uncertainty, the desire to be the only or the only, spiritual rapprochement, betrothal.
 Below, I want to talk to you in detail and talk specifically about each stage.
1 Light attraction.A large number of psychologists argue that at the initial stage of development of relations between a woman and a man, it is men who turn and peck at the appearance of a woman, and for women, on the contrary, it is male intelligence that is a very important factor. Although I want to note that in fact this is far from the case. Let me give you another example from school. When I was in the tenth grade, I had a very fat and ugly girlfriend who didn’t even want to know anything about cosmetics and fashion. But what is very interesting, all this did not prevent her from having whole crowds of fans. And during dating, guys, for some reason, always gave preference to this girlfriend, and not to slender and well-groomed girls. And the girls, in turn, somehow not very actively rushed to get acquainted at the mega-macho. Their interest was directed to a completely different type of boys.
When the period of acquaintance comes, there is an erroneous opinion that the first thing that attracts us is the mind and the ball of the opposite sex. However, at first we are attracted or repelled by the smell of the person himself. Often there are situations when, on a first date, a companion speaks complete nonsense, but you still listen to him.
2 Doubt and uncertainty. This stage occurs immediately after a slight attraction. In ita period of uncertainty, a man is tormented by thoughts, he made the right choice, was he wrong, is this half that he has been looking for so long, or does it still need to continue further … And women at that time are very nervous and furious, not understanding and not knowing why a man does not come to visit, does not call and does not give gifts. It all starts with brainwashing your close friends and ends with stupid questions to the man you like. It is precisely this obsession that most often scares away men! All you need to do is calm down and give the man time to think. Do not bother him with meaningless and stupid calls and messages. Believe me, if you sunk into the heart of a man, then in a few days he will definitely show up himself. Remember that uncertainty is like fishing. First you throw a fishing rod with a profit, you wait. The fish swims up to the bait and begins to sniff it. Then for some more time she winds circles around the worm and thinks whether to eat it or not. It is at this time that the fisherman should try to sit as quietly and calmly as possible so as not to scare away the fish. But as soon as she gets hooked, you need to pull her ashore as quickly as possible. Every wise woman should do the same, but only with a man!
3 One or only. When a man has already decided on the correctness of his choice, he undoubtedly calls the woman and invites her on a date. The main thing at this moment is that a woman should not pretend to be a hard-to-reach girl or a business fifa. At the third stage of the relationship between a woman and a man, both need to show themselves only from the best side. After all, this stage is like a test drive. To give a vivid example, before buying any product you carefully inspect it, this is exactly what happens in relationships.
4 Spiritual rapprochement.The most interesting step in a relationship. It is during this period that lovers begin to trust their partner and open up to him. The main thing is to show all your pluses and minuses gradually. No need to dump the "basket of dirty laundry" on the head of a loved one. After all, it is very easy to scare. I will give a very simple example: you appeared before a man in the form of a good housewife, a beautiful woman and a pleasant companion. Just imagine what the reaction of your gentleman will be when he finds out that all the dishes he ate were prepared not by you, but by your grandmother. His conversations are of no interest to you at all. Yes, and you are far from being a homebody, but a lover of nightclubs and noisy parties.
5 engagement.If your relationship has reached the stage of engagement, this does not indicate that only the happy family life that you so dreamed of awaits you ahead. At this stage, both a man and a woman are fully aware of their choice, accept all the shortcomings of their partner and madly love the virtues of their soulmate. Although it also happens that the reverse side happens, and it is at the last stage of the relationship between a woman and a man that the couple understands that their relationship is leading to a dead end. And the best choice in such a situation is parting. It is at the fifth stage that you need to clarify to yourself that there are no ideal people in the world, that there is no escape from household rubbish. And whatever they say, the spiritual world of a person is much more important than dirty socks under the sofa. Just take a look at your man. You’re probably picking on her for no reason.