How to behave with a married man: doās and donāts
They say that there are no good men left, since they have all been married for a long time. However, a married man is not a sentence, and building a relationship with him is quite realistic. At the same time, it is very important for you to know what can and cannot be done in communication with him.
Cons of dating married guys
In order to understand how to behave with a guy, a friend, or just a man who has a wife, you need to face the truth. Relations between a man and a woman can be just friendly, but anyway, sooner or later, potential lovers begin to look at each other.
No matter how trite it sounds, there is no friendship between a man and a woman. And if everything comes to intimate relationships, it is unlikely to do without tears and disappointment. The fact is that after many years of living in a routine and taking care of the family, a married man begins to want something new, but, as a rule, he does not want to ruin the family at all. And then trips begin to restaurants, cafes, bars and places where you can spend time with a single woman, giving her a one-time evening.
You can just become a toy that is designed to keep a man from getting bored, and then, most likely, fade into the background.
Of course, there are situations when a woman does not plan a long relationship, and wants to get only sex from meeting a married man. But it is so arranged in nature that a girl, somewhere in the depths of her soul, dreams of beautiful children and a beloved husband. And even if the evening will be held at the highest level, and everything will be fine, the incomprehensible emptiness after the departure of a partner will most likely make you think about the future. Soon she will begin to think about how to break off relations with her lover.
Without a doubt, it also happens that a man just stopped loving his other half and wants to give love, but not to her. Love comes and goes, but children remain. So you should think about whether it is worth moving from friendships to intimate ones. A man who has decided to leave his wife can appoint you as his future wife, and then you will have to put up with his children and ex-wife. And it should be said that once having fallen out of love, it can stop loving again, such is the psychology, you canāt get away from it.
If you still decide to become the mistress of a married man, remember that when communicating with him, you do not need to touch on the topic of his family, children and other things that are personal. Do not touch his innermost, because you yourself have chosen the role of a lover, so many topics in communication with him are forbidden to you.
Not everything is so bad
But in no case be afraid, if you sincerely love, and your feelings are mutual, start acting. Love works wonders and no one can stop it. Moreover, when a husband and wife live without love, they cannot avoid frequent scandals, and, as you know, children suffer from this.
If you have the opportunity to be the wife of a man who has already been married, most likely you will have the best relationship, since this man has already seen all the standard relationship problems and probably knows how to avoid some conflicts.
Despite all the advantages, it is still better to have friendly relations with married men and not cross the line. But also, you should not put the question point-blank, they say, with a married man, never and for nothing, since your life is very diverse, and everything in it is possible.
What if the purpose of the relationship is something unconditional for which both the man and the woman could take responsibility? What if this isā¦ the practice of love? Love is what is within us; something for which we are responsible in both good and bad times. Love allows us to focus on our own efforts and responsibilities, as well as to notice the advantages of our partner. Too many people focus on taking something from the relationship. But, for a harmonious relationship, you need to give, take responsibility for your happiness, and then āinvest" it in others.