How to understand that a man likes you: external manifestations, first communication, transition to seduction
Have you met an interesting, handsome man? You are pleased to communicate with him and you would like your communication to become closer, but you don’t know if your new acquaintance liked you and how he treats you. Perhaps he just communicates with you as a friend, or maybe he is not averse to moving to another stage of the relationship. So how do you know if a man likes you without asking directly?
Sections of psychology that study people’s behavior, interpret their gestures, facial expressions and movements are called kinesics and physiognomy. If you carefully follow the facial expression, the emotions that appear on it, the position of the body, arms, legs, then you can say a lot about a person, about his mood at the moment. You can determine whether he is lying or telling the truth, whether or not he is interested in a conversation, or you can find out if he feels sympathy for you or indifference.
Pay attention to the look of the man. If you are pleasant to him, then he will either look at you furtively, looking away when meeting your eyes, or he will look straight ahead, while the pupils will be dilated. If the pupils are narrow, then, most likely, he experiences completely opposite feelings, although it cannot be ruled out that the sun simply shines in his eyes.
Widely spaced legs also indicate that a man likes you, and he wants to achieve mutual feelings by instinctively showing the genitals. The same thing means if a man put his hands on his belt, and even put his thumbs behind the belt.
Look at how the man’s feet are, if they are turned in your direction, then this is a good sign. And if there are other girls in the room besides you, then this means that the man distinguishes you among them, and he likes you the most.
When a man talks with a girl he likes, the speed and intonation of his voice changes. Speech becomes louder, more confident, sharp notes can slip through. Thus, a young man is trying to demonstrate that he is better than other representatives of the stronger sex, his confidence and masculinity.
If by all signs you see that a man is not indifferent, and you also like him, then you can try to take the relationship in a different direction. But you do not need to openly seduce him, especially if this is the first communication. Such behavior can scare a man away. Some girls are so good at their face and body movements that a slight smile, a mysterious look is enough for a guy to forget about everything in the world.
You can also demonstrate your interest in the further development of relations with the help of the following gestures. Twist your hair as if by chance, wind it around your finger, play with an earring or pendant. Change the tone and speed of speech. Let your voice sound soft, smooth, not too loud. You can accidentally touch a man, but do it gently and unobtrusively. Such signals will let him know that you are ready for the further development of your relationship.
What if the purpose of the relationship is something unconditional for which both the man and the woman could take responsibility? What if this is… the practice of love? Love is what is within us; something for which we are responsible in both good and bad times. Love allows us to focus on our own efforts and responsibilities, as well as to notice the advantages of our partner. Too many people focus on taking something from the relationship. But, for a harmonious relationship, you need to give, take responsibility for your happiness, and then “invest" it in others.