SECRETS OF A HAPPY MARRIAGE
Dear and beloved girls, it’s no secret to anyone that meeting your soul mate and marrying him is not the ultimate dream. And not always, but let’s tell the truth – almost never, the fairy tale does not end with the words "And they lived happily ever after!". Only if you can keep the atmosphere of happiness in your feelings, you will be able to turn an ordinary married life into a happy adventure. Who doesn’t want to live happily with their loved one? To ensure that everything works out for you, we bring to your attention a few necessary tips that will help you achieve your goal.
You must not forget that in addition to becoming husband and wife, you must remain best friends. You should not have any secrets and secrets from each other. You need to spend more time together and just talk, communicate. Many girls make a huge mistake, after marriage they spread all their secrets and sore thoughts to their girlfriends, who, frankly, do not need your experiences, they have their own up to their necks. And if the newly-made wives began to tell their husband their spiritual passions, then they would be able to develop a new level of trust in the relationship. Soon the spouse will begin to share his thoughts with his beloved, and you will realize how wonderful it is when you can tell your own man everything that you feel.
Do not forget that spending a lot of time with the same person, no matter who it is (husband, mother, sister or girlfriend), you will face the thought that you are bored. To exclude such a turn of events, both you and your spouse should have their own little hobby. Resting doing what you love, you will be distracted from household chores and forget about everyday things. And returning home, completely rested and renewed, you can again enjoy every second spent with your loved one.
Romance has not been cancelled.
Do not think that after such a celebration as a wedding, a romantic mood should disappear from life. In no case! You need to continue to arrange unusual meetings, surprise and intrigue each other. Go on dates, travel, walk. Especially if you already have a baby in your marriage. Give your miracle into the hands of your beloved grandmothers, and yourself
go on romantic dates and walks. Romance is necessary in any relationship, it cannot be ruled out. After the wedding, you do not have to turn into serious spouses and do only what is customary. Have fun and relax together.
Drive the word "Divorce" out of your thoughts.
The newlyweds must clearly agree that no matter what happens, they will not lose each other. There is a way out of any situation, any dispute can be resolved by a calm conversation. You should not even think that in any case you can get away from him – this is a gross mistake. If you love each other and feel happy, then in any situation you can compromise. Be wiser and more patient if you are planning a long happy life with this person.
Create some small traditions in your family. For example, drink coffee together in the morning, once a week go out into nature. Something that you like. Regularly doing these simple things will strengthen your family.
Remember that the most important person is your husband.
Never put your loved one in the background. It should be your everything, your support, protection, really the second half. Love for a loved one does not have the right to fade away even for a second. Yes, you will refute these words if you begin to assert that the most important thing is the baby you gave birth to. But, it’s only for a while. Children grow quickly and over time do not require such strong supervision of them as before, and the husband is always there, always with you. And it cannot be ignored.
Remember that marriage also depends on the people around you. If the friends who come to visit you have different thoughts about marriage and love for life, then these are envious friends. You yourself will not notice how you start to reason the same way. And the words of your "wonderful" girlfriends will firmly sit in your head. Therefore, be friends with families so that both you and your spouse would have fun. And try to choose people who think the same way you do when it comes to marriage and love. It will become much easier to have fun.
By sticking to these small, but you will agree, very important tips, you can strengthen your marriage, preserve romantic feelings for a long time and enjoy every moment, next to your loved one. Fill your life with the necessary emotions and feelings, stop quarrels and scandals without giving
they turn around, kiss, go on dates, do not lose your sense of passion and do not let your love for your spouse fade away. Love and be loved, dear women.