Shopping is like hunting: basic rules
Shopaholics know what hunting passion is. He wakes up every time he sees a new pair of shoes or a dress. In fact, shopping is akin to hunting, only you need to catch not the beast, but the things of your dreams. Otherwise, there are obvious coincidences: you need certain qualities of a hunter, the ability to take a trail, scout the right places and know the rules.
Rule 1. List
Make a list of things you would like to buy ahead of time. Keep it always in view so that you can adjust your purchases if necessary.
Important: if you forgot to enter something right away, then this is not such a necessary thing. Put it on your next list, buy later.
Rule 2. Timer
Plan not only shopping, but also the time allotted for it. The best solution would be a timer or an alarm clock set for a specific hour.
Over time, you yourself will learn to meet the planned deadline and see that you can do everything quickly, leaving free hours to meet with friends.
Rule 3. Sale or sales
Sales are a good thing, but very harmful and addictive. On sales, you want to buy everything at once, necessary and not so much. The excuse “it will still come in handy" is always a decisive factor, and your wardrobe is replenished with another twenty-fifth dress. Solution: Realistically imagine yourself in the thing you are going to buy. If in doubt, set aside.
Rule 4. Vigilance
Among the discounted products there are also new collections, for which you will not receive discounts. Find out from consultants what items are discounted.
Rule 5. Support group
You always want to do something "for the company." But shopping should be an exception. Firstly, at the sight of a friend’s purchase, the hands themselves will reach into the wallet for money. Secondly, buying together is more fun. Therefore, if you want the right and necessary purchases, go after them alone. Or take a friend with you, he will definitely tell you whether you need this thirteenth skirt or not.
Rule 6. Super plan
Have you been dreaming of an apartment, a car or a vacation in the Maldives for a long time? If yes, then keep this in mind when it comes to your mind to buy another pair of boots. Rash purchases make your dream take a step back.
Rule 7. Quality
Don’t go for cheap items. Low price does not mean quality. Therefore, make a selection of reliable hardware hypermarkets, shoe and clothing stores for yourself. Things will last longer and there will be no need to replace them. This is how you save money.
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