How to get him… to the store
Do men like to go shopping? Most male representatives will categorically say: "Of course not." But often this is not true. It just seems undignified for men to admit such weakness.
You are madly in love with a man, ready to spend days and nights with him. Therefore, sooner or later, ask yourself the question: “Why don’t we go shopping together?". Of course, this idea will seem to you ingenious, amazing, original. After all, you, like most women, are delighted with the opportunity to go over the outlets: look after yourself for a new dress, shoes, hat, handbag, jewelry, cosmetics, etc. The list of goods can be listed endlessly – after all, ladies love all these little things so much and are ready to devote an unlimited amount of time to shopping.
But, to your great disappointment, the beloved was not delighted with such improvisation. Why did this happen and how to fix it? You just scared him. Think about how calm, balanced, logical males can be dumbfounded with such ideas without preparation? Of course no. Therefore, you need to approach the problem seriously and deliberately. Start a conversation from afar – take an interest in what fascinates your soulmate. Believe me, he also likes to buy things, only they have a different purpose: computers, cars, spare parts for them, accessories for hunting and fishing, etc.
After learning about his weakness, offer to go to the store where they provide the relevant goods. Of course, you will have to be patient, because. this is just a small step towards the realization of the plan. For a trip, choose a large chain of stores. When a loved one has bought everything necessary for his hobby, you can go to another department, for example, menswear or perfume. There you can buy a suit, shirt or cologne for him. Your task is to admire and say how the new thing suits him.
He will definitely like it – men also like to show off. And when interest lit up in his eyes, feel free to take him to a women’s clothing store. Firstly, it will be inconvenient for him to refuse – you spent a lot of time on him. Secondly, he is already involved in the process. Perhaps even in the future he will agree to such a pastime without whims.
What if the purpose of the relationship is something unconditional for which both the man and the woman could take responsibility? What if this is… the practice of love? Love is what is within us; something for which we are responsible in both good and bad times. Love allows us to focus on our own efforts and responsibilities, as well as to notice the advantages of our partner. Too many people focus on taking something from the relationship. But, for a harmonious relationship, you need to give, take responsibility for your happiness, and then “invest” it in others.