Shopping for two
It is impossible to say with certainty that all men do not like shopping at all. You can, for example, send your spouse to a fishing or sports store or to an electronics salon, and “hang out" yourself in a supermarket with cosmetics and perfumes. What if you trust each other’s taste and are both ready to calmly go shopping with clothes and shoes? However, the latter option is the exception rather than the rule. Most often, shopping together with a man is quite problematic, but sometimes you can’t get away from it … Then you need to organize your shopping so that it goes on positively.
Much depends on the mental attitude. Entering the store, the man already imagines what exactly needs to be taken. He goes to the necessary department and soon he is already heading to the checkout with a certain product. If you need clothes, he tries on and the thing that fits the size will certainly get it. For the majority of the stronger sex, shopping is a necessity, a duty or a duty.
And a woman, choosing goods in a store, thinks not only about their urgent need, but also about color, style, originality, fashion … Many people enjoy the process itself. For them, shopping is a hobby. What’s new? What is it suitable for? How will it look? A woman can try on several outfits, buy nothing, but still be satisfied. She was interested!
To purchase a thing, women often go through all possible options. This is especially unsatisfactory for men. That is, the representatives of the stronger sex do not like the shopping process itself, but the way women shop. They quickly get tired and begin to hurry their companions. Often, couples have serious quarrels on this basis.
However, a compromise can be reached. Try to reduce your time in the store. Some first bypass all the necessary outlets themselves, and then lead the spouses to “explored places”. Walk purposefully. A man should know what exactly to find. Set a clear goal in front of him, indicating the price, size, etc. At the same time, pay attention to sales (most men try to be practical, think about the future, etc.). Perhaps the spouse will like to solve such problems …
Do not go shopping when there are too many people. Also, many men are annoyed by illogically arranged rows, where everything is scattered and it is not clear what and where lies.
If shopping is planned for a long time, go to a cafe – drink coffee and chat about non-shop topics. And at the end of the "shopping period" thank the man for his generosity, care, patience and help!
What if the purpose of the relationship is something unconditional for which both the man and the woman could take responsibility? What if this is… the practice of love? Love is what is within us; something for which we are responsible in both good and bad times. Love allows us to focus on our own efforts and responsibilities, as well as to notice the advantages of our partner. Too many people focus on taking something from the relationship. But, for a harmonious relationship, you need to give, take responsibility for your happiness, and then “invest” it in others.