Shopping with him: dangerous!

Women prefer to shop without men. There are many explanations for this, but the main reason is the different psychology of behavior in the store: starting from the purpose of shopping and ending with the methods of choosing a purchase.

If the strategies of behavior in the store do not match, a dispute often arises between a man and a woman, which can develop into a conflict. Knowing the origins of these differences, a woman can avoid unwanted situations.

First of all, you need to decide: why do you need a man in the store, can you do without him? A positive response will reduce the likelihood of negative emotions towards each other. If you decide that without a man you will be less comfortable, then try to understand the possible sources of danger when shopping together.

There can be many reasons for a woman to come to the store: relax, tune in to a serious conversation, meet a girlfriend, purchase the necessary purchase. There is only one reason for a man to come to the store – a purchase. Moreover, it is very specifically represented in many details, which will not allow the buyer to confuse it with something else.

If the desired thing was not in this store, then the man will go to another. A woman, without losing hope, will look for a replacement, transforming the image of the desired purchase from winter boots into a summer blouse. Watching this kind of transformation, a rare man will silently look at what is happening. The situation can be complicated if a woman asks her companion to evaluate the new thing.

There is a category of goods that are initially defined as "male" and "female". The wisdom of a woman will not allow criticizing a man for incompetence in the selection of cosmetics or perfumes. In no case do not try to pretend that you are better versed in household appliances, computers or auto parts. All this can also become a source of conflict.

The most dangerous when shopping together is the difference in perception – how much money can be spent in one visit to the store. For a man, the answer is determined by the price of the necessary goods. A woman can spend everything she has and experience maximum satisfaction at the same time. This mismatch can also provoke mutual resentment and misunderstanding.

What if the purpose of the relationship is something unconditional for which both the man and the woman could take responsibility? What if this is… the practice of love? Love is what is within us; something for which we are responsible in both good and bad times. Love allows us to focus on our own efforts and responsibilities, as well as to notice the advantages of our partner. Too many people focus on taking something from the relationship. But, for a harmonious relationship, you need to give, take responsibility for your happiness, and then “invest" it in others.