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TWO – ME AND MY SHADOW

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The birth of twins is a big mystery of nature. Nature does not give a person who looks like you like two drops of water. Happiness multiplied by two, three, or even four sometimes happens in different families. Parents are planning the birth of only one baby and suddenly receive a bonus. It is natural that in such a situation, mom and dad feel a little confused in matters of raising kids.

In ancient times, twins were considered messengers of the gods and were credited with supernatural powers. Telepathic communication between twins is still talked about today. Scientists do not confirm this fact, but they will not refute it either. The people live stories-legends about the incomprehensible connection between the twins. They say that if one of them has to experience something unusual, the other, even being at the opposite end of the world, experiences the same thing. Gemini can be envied. They do not know loneliness, but since childhood they have not had a moment when they would be left to themselves. Kids are always together, from early childhood in their games they distribute functions and roles among themselves. It is during this period of development that the foundations of their relationship in the future are laid. What these relationships will be depends mainly on the parents. Very often they make gross mistakes in raising their children. The most common and unacceptable mistake occurs when parents begin to treat twins as a single entity. They often buy the same things, toys, thereby making one out of two different people. Mothers do not hear themselves with joy, walking with such identical children, and passers-by cannot help smiling. Moreover, not only external resemblance is encouraged, many parents are sure that kids should absolutely resemble each other in everything. It is beneficial for parents that children are always together, play and do not interfere. And the twins, meanwhile, obsess over each other. Constant close contact between them affects the development of their personalities. Eternally busy mom and dad believe that children are good together and they do not need to communicate with their peers. The most common and unacceptable mistake occurs when parents begin to treat twins as a single entity. They often buy the same things, toys, thereby making one out of two different people. Mothers do not hear themselves with joy, walking with such identical children, and passers-by cannot help smiling. Moreover, not only external resemblance is encouraged, many parents are sure that kids should absolutely resemble each other in everything. It is beneficial for parents that children are always together, play and do not interfere. And the twins, meanwhile, obsess over each other. Constant close contact between them affects the development of their personalities. Eternally busy mom and dad believe that children are good together and they do not need to communicate with their peers. The most common and unacceptable mistake occurs when parents begin to treat twins as a single entity. They often buy the same things, toys, thereby making one out of two different people. Mothers do not hear themselves with joy, walking with such identical children, and passers-by cannot help smiling. Moreover, not only external resemblance is encouraged, many parents are sure that kids should absolutely resemble each other in everything. It is beneficial for parents that children are always together, play and do not interfere. And the twins, meanwhile, obsess over each other. Constant close contact between them affects the development of their personalities. Eternally busy mom and dad believe that children are good together and they do not need to communicate with their peers. as a whole. They often buy the same things, toys, thereby making one out of two different people. Mothers do not hear themselves with joy, walking with such identical children, and passers-by cannot help smiling. Moreover, not only external resemblance is encouraged, many parents are sure that kids should absolutely resemble each other in everything. It is beneficial for parents that children are always together, play and do not interfere. And the twins, meanwhile, obsess over each other. Constant close contact between them affects the development of their personalities. Eternally busy mom and dad believe that children are good together and they do not need to communicate with their peers. as a whole. They often buy the same things, toys, thereby making one out of two different people. Mothers cannot hear themselves with joy, walking with such identical children, and passers-by cannot help smiling. Moreover, not only external resemblance is encouraged, many parents are sure that kids should absolutely resemble each other in everything. It is beneficial for parents that children are always together, play and do not interfere. And the twins, meanwhile, obsess over each other. Constant close contact between them affects the development of their personalities. Eternally busy mom and dad believe that children are good together and they do not need to communicate with their peers. Moreover, not only external resemblance is encouraged, many parents are sure that kids should absolutely resemble each other in everything. It is beneficial for parents that children are always together, play and do not interfere. And the twins, meanwhile, obsess over each other. Constant close contact between them affects the development of their personalities. Eternally busy mom and dad believe that children are good together and they do not need to communicate with their peers. Moreover, not only external resemblance is encouraged, many parents are sure that kids should absolutely resemble each other in everything. It is beneficial for parents that children are always together, play and do not interfere. And the twins, meanwhile, obsess over each other. Constant close contact between them affects the development of their personalities. Eternally busy mom and dad believe that children are good together and they do not need to communicate with their peers.

Of course, it’s wonderful that the kids grow up friendly, they just adore each other. However, the constant emphasis on similarities leads to the interdependence of children. It is often quite difficult for inseparable twins to assert themselves in a team, whether it is a kindergarten, school or place of work. So it turns out that cute at first glance identical dresses and suits can be the first steps towards adult helplessness of twins. Accustomed to constant identification, they, in the truest sense of the word, cannot live without each other. Because of this upbringing, the twins are doomed to suffering. The time will come to create a family, a career, and there will no longer be room for two. To avoid unpleasant problems in the future, parents should heed some pedagogical advice.

First, special attention should be paid to the formation of individual psychological traits in twins. Parents should in every possible way emphasize not the similarity, but the difference between the twins. This will help to avoid an unhealthy attachment between them. Do not encourage the desire of children in everything to be like each other. It is important to remember that it is useful for them to communicate with other children, because this will allow them to broaden their horizons, teach them to conduct a dialogue. Gemini equally need parental care, love, tenderness and attention. Sometimes, precisely because the parents share the roles of the twins in the leader and the one who is with him, enmity flares up between the children. They may even hate each other, but the thought of being separated brings them unbearable pain.

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