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FREE RELATIONSHIPS

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Free relationships or freelove is a controversial topic, having, like everything in this life, both supporters and opponents.

Freelancing is based on freedom, which only people who have unlimited trust in each other are ready to provide. Usually, relationships have many limits and prohibitions, which at times increase the craving for the “forbidden fruit".

A more precise definition of free love: this is a relationship between two people based on mutual respect and understanding, as well as giving a loved one the “right to the left”, which, in fact, is not such – the concept of treason, adultery is absent in such relationships, because everything is possible .

Pros and Cons of Open Relationships

The undoubted advantage of such relations is that people do not owe each other anything, only mutual desire keeps them nearby, and not some domestic and legal issues, because of which many are forced to endure each other. No one deceives anyone, is not jealous, although … As for the latter, everything is ambiguous – someone in a couple can pretend very well, they say, everything is in order, it doesn’t bother me, it should be like that, dying of jealousy. Unfortunately, this moment is common in open relationships – one of the partners really needs a lot of sexual relations, not paying attention to their quality and not wanting to deceive his regular partner, who, ironically, wants exactly quality, not chasing quantity.. Like this.

It happens that such a free couple is formed by people with the same sexual temperament (low), for them the frequent change of partners is a common thing, sexual acceptability is high, and if they agree on everything “on the shore”, they will be really happy. The question arises: why was it necessary to create a pair at all? Well, everything is simple here: you want emotional intimacy, which is possible with only one person, and if he also understands you, giving freedom (and receiving it from your side), then it’s generally gorgeous. 

Among the minuses, of course, the negative attitude of others. Which, by the way, is not always useful to know about the true state of things – you are a couple, but how everything happens inside is a personal matter, not a public one.

The psychological attitude is also important: the belief about the only man for life is firmly seated in the subcortex. And if it is not worked out, then with free love it is unlikely to succeed. Well, if it’s needed at all, of course.

The duration of such a relationship is questionable. One wants more, the other does not want to change anything. So again, you need to have a psychological readiness to let go of a person. It is necessary to lay straws – so that it falls softer.

If all of the above has not cooled the ardor, then it makes sense to allow yourself this format of relations. Just realize your right to such a choice. By the way, the legalized right to the left can lead to a loss of interest in the latter – the forbidden fruit will cease to be forbidden, and a clear awareness of the desire for quiet family happiness will appear. In any case, thinking about open relationships will help you realize your nature, which means that freelove is useful even in theory.

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